Sooner or later people will realize...

that's right

If you can't return, so do not really need:good
But in this life, we always lose something, but something acquired in return and sometimes acquired end up being better than lost

And yet despite that to lose, something I would like to lose and never to return

Vovka, the Golden words!!!
How often I have used expect, hope, and fate does the opposite. When that happens, I always say: "Look at this situation in a few years". And now comes the time and you know that as well, then everything went as it came. Today, and now this situation, which you are 100% satisfied and no one knows what would have happened to all of yours.