The short parable about forgiveness

That's right: it is necessary to treat the cause of disease!

Well, if someone hurt you accidentally, then you should not be offended But if you offend deliberately, I think, to forgive or not

If hurt intentionally, then something is wrong. So, something need to change in themselves.

D Aug. The offense gives the offended a lot more negative emotions than the offender...

To forgive we must always keep the offense not to carry,but with such people it is better to keep a distance and not to admit them to yourselfYes and after a bit of digging if I attracted such a person,then you, too, this is KakaWithdrawal--to improve HIMSELF and everyone poops themselves about to fall off

Vovka2 with You to keep your eyes open still need,and then just As skovoroda:

This story is not forgiveness, and how the man was able to overcome the root cause of their problems in itself.
From 1975 to 1991 - Yuri Nikolaev, the permanent host of weekly music program "Morning post", one of the most popular transmissions of Soviet television. In those years, Yuri Nikolaev was fond of alcohol and once drunk got in a car accident on June 2, 1978 was drunk live.
Nikolaev won a bad habit, he returned to the air.

I agree with Vova! And not always a cause in itself, cause a friend who allows himself to humiliate others. There was a post that these should be put in place, sometimes tough, intelligent they don't understand.

Ioanna, thanks for the support
of course it is necessary to Forgive, otherwise your friends won't be anyone left, who would you not hold a grudge But I guess there are things that are unforgivable and you just can't forgive!

Vovka2, there are certain things that cannot be forgiven. Help me assertive rules ( I hope correctly wrote :ignat , it is very angry other

" assertive behavior is"

Ioanna, thank you! I'm here in the gaps in their knowledge filled the and, behold, learned a new buzzword, no wonder the day is gone! Tomorrow I will tell everyone that I assertive people can get off a clever

Vovk right-right-right! I too had thought about the way his interlocutors. But life has taught. Okay, I will not dwell on their problems, I will say briefly on the case - "you're doing something wrong", "you something they drew," but the man that you DELIBERATELY (!) offends, well done and all in white? Deliberately to hurt - right?
Us wrong in the childhood brought up (I'm talking about a generation of children of the Soviet Union). "Who is smarter, the one stop", "Oh, what a good, silent, well-behaved". And for some reason everyone always focuses on the person being bullied, he is to blame, and hurting his angel!

But seriously, I just go away from such people!